Posted by Raindancer on April 18, 2004, at 18:45:35
In reply to Re: Confused, unhappy, upset...ashamed. (long), posted by DaisyM on April 17, 2004, at 14:52:51
Daisy, I really appreciate your help. You give so much even when you're not feeling so good yourself. I wish you lived next door and we could have coffee and buns together.
I could see someone else, but would have to see the person I was 'given' and who might not be right for me. Let me be more honest - I would fly to the north Pole to see my present T and can't envisage anyone else coming close. If all else fails I would see a private T for short term therapy, which would be all I can afford. While I feel my T doesn't realise or understand the depth and intensity of my fears, he has acknowledged my pain by trying to put something in place for me and this is important .
If you can find the article about attachment I would be very grateful as I think it would be an enormous help.
You mention distraction and how I agree. The trouble is I distract myself so much that I allow almost no time to think about the issues involved. I sort of turn my back on them and pretend they're not there.. Hope things are improved with you. Many thanks. R
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