Posted by Chucky Adkins on April 7, 2004, at 5:12:00
In reply to Re: I have a hard-on during therapy. I think she knows, posted by shadows721 on April 6, 2004, at 23:04:23
> Have you ever thought that maybe she is actually doing something that is causing this turn on? That explanation about staring at you just doesn't sit well with me. It sounds like she does know what she is doing. It may not be actually all you, but in response to what she is doing.
She doesn't stare at me the way my wife does. It's very intense like she is very concerned almost worried. Nothing she does seems provocative. Her staring doesn't "arouse" me. It's that she cares so deeply about my issues that I like. She's been very professional. When she asked me how I felt when she stares at me and I said that I thought that we were in a staring contest, she said that she was not and that she just cares about me. It was this comment that got me "happy". (if you know what i mean)It's her attention to my issues that get me going. I'm not really all that attracted to her, but she is the first therapist that i have felt that i could begin to do some real work with and if that's because she is a female right now then that's ok. I'll let you know how today goes. I'll be up front with her about all of this.
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