Posted by pegasus on March 25, 2004, at 14:04:43
In reply to My X T Called Me ..., posted by toomuchpain on March 25, 2004, at 12:47:15
That was totally out of line for him. I agree that this could be added to your list of grievances. I know you don't want to hurt him, but he certainly could have handled this in a way that would have hurt you less. And you tried to move on in the ways that were available to you. As far as I can see, this is one of the few things you have available to do that may result in you getting some needed care and some apologies that are certainly owed to you. It's not like you just lept to the grievance board as soon as he dumped you. You really seem to have tried everything else that you could. I hope your grievance also includes your new T who was so unhelpful to you. Isn't she at that same organization also?
Many hugs and encouragement. This sounds so *hard* and IMHO your ex-T is showing is colors by making it even *harder*.
- p
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