Posted by gardenergirl on February 24, 2004, at 17:20:23
In reply to Can't make decisions, posted by poet on February 24, 2004, at 13:44:35
Poet,
This sounds really difficult for you. Do you think you are (or are more) depressed? Difficulty making decisions is one sign of this. It may also be that the decision on the house is really scary, and it is making it harder to make any decision at all.Please remember that you are wonderful the way you are. It doesn't matter what you wear or what you eat for lunch in the long run. Unless you mix up the clothes and the food, but I don't think you are likely to do that. But I've heard people say they will eat their hat, so you never know. ;^)
Go ahead and call your T if you want. You can always just confirm your appt. for Thursday if hearing your T's voice is enough to get you through until then.
And celebrate any single, simple decision you make each time you make one. You can do it. I have faith in you. You are already working on this with your T. This is just a period which provides fodder for therapy. Why is it so much harder all of the sudden? Definitely worth talking about. And I know you can do that.
It's good to see you on the board.
Take care and hang in there.
(((Poet)))
gg
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