Posted by DaisyM on February 20, 2004, at 17:17:49
In reply to Re: This powerful attraction - here to stay?, posted by pinkeye on February 20, 2004, at 16:29:15
Don't you think it is because the therapy setting is so intimate and so isolated from the real world? Think about what we get: total attention to OUR problems, no need to take care of this other person, no need to allow for bad days, bad moods or unpleasant physical attributes, if you know what I mean. Of course it might feel romantic. The attentiveness is something we don't get very many places.
I'm glad you have a good husband. I might suggest that maybe you plan the romance, not wait for him too. I think maybe I sometimes forget to list my husband's good qualities when I think about what he doesn't do.
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