Posted by DaisyM on January 30, 2004, at 18:08:48
In reply to Re: What I need, posted by antigua on January 30, 2004, at 12:28:32
>>>That's like my therapist (old one) ABRUPTLY (I mean immediately) abandoning me when he learned about my sexual abuse issues because he couldn't help me, when the major issue I face is that I feel I will be abandoned if I tell anyone about the abuse (i.e., if I told my mother, she would leave me, etc.) In my case, I was abandoned anyway, so fear of abandonment is my most major issue--and this T abandoned me. And he didn't get it either, when it was clear as a bell to me.
<<<I've been lurking mostly for a few days -- hurting and struggling between sessions. But I had to write...you have no idea how this hits me...especially after the last two weeks. Especially after the last 2 days! It is so sad and scary - I'm so sorry this happened to you. I terrified that it is going to happen to me. The voices keep saying over and over, "telling is bad, telling is BAD" -- and your experience proves it.
poster:DaisyM
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