Posted by Dinah on January 14, 2004, at 21:41:14
In reply to Re: sexual boundary crossing » Joslynn, posted by Karen_kay on January 14, 2004, at 20:50:14
I'll say this, Karen. I strongly suspect that when he gets a few more years under his belt, he won't be quite as forthcoming. He sounds like he might get a bit flustered from time to time. So if you like his style, and are glad he answered your questions honestly, be happy you got a just barely 29 year old therapist.
In a few years he'll be gently asking why you are asking that question and what you imagine the answer to be and what it would mean to you if he did fantasize about his clients.
Which is not a criticism of him. I think it's great that you were able to ask a straight question and get a straight answer. Goodness knows most of us wonder in one way or another whether our therapists think about us. You sure got an answer to that. :)
(But you said in a previous post that you'll keep an eye out for boundary crossings - probably not a bad idea.)
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