Posted by crushedout on January 12, 2004, at 11:06:58
In reply to Re: Difficult Questions, posted by Rigby on January 12, 2004, at 10:10:35
> It sounds like there's a bit of a housecleaning going on on her end--she's getting firmer boundaries and being clearer. It could be a combo of her messing up and wanting to correct mistakes and maybe she feels like you're ready to have her do this. I hope you're feeling better about all this--you've been through alot!
yeah, i just don't like the mixed messages, being jerked around. but you're right, i needed these boundaries clarified. i feel pretty good these days, but there's a lot of confusion about the transference, and i feel really humiliated about spilling my guts to her last week. i'm actually dreading seeing her today. i don't know what that's about. when i did it, it felt satisfying, but as i've sat with it, i've just felt more and more ashamed and stupid.
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> Also, three times a week perhaps only served todid you get cut off here?
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