Posted by Miss Honeychurch on January 8, 2004, at 10:35:12
In reply to Re: Asking your T if he ever fantasizes about you? » tinydancer, posted by Dinah on January 8, 2004, at 9:50:07
I of course would love to ask my therapist this question as well but I think I wouldn't like the answer. If he said he DIDN'T fantasize about me I would be disappointed and probably hurt (In my own mind I like to think that he looks forward to Thursdays because he'll see me. I'm sure this is far from reality however!). If he said he DID fantasize about me, I would freak out about boundaries and start to wonder about his professionalism and whether he has my best interests at heart.
Have you thought about how you would react to either scenario?
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