Posted by DaisyM on January 6, 2004, at 19:21:16
In reply to she said no so she passed the test, posted by crushedout on January 6, 2004, at 16:57:13
I'm glad you are OK with the No. I have to say though, in reading your posts, that the back and forth stuff *isn't* really holding the boundaries because they keep shifting. I realize that I am slow to trust and to ask for help but, if I had even a hint that I was making it difficult for my Therapist, I would shut down. And have.
That said, it sounds like you are aware of what you are doing and feel therapy is helping. This is really great. And, maybe she just got full between the time she said she could and the time you called back.
Hang in there. I know you are going through a rough time.
poster:DaisyM
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