Posted by DaisyM on January 2, 2004, at 18:05:04
In reply to Re: OK, what do you all think of this??? naiad, posted by pegasus on January 2, 2004, at 17:13:29
> Whenever I worry out loud about boring my T, he says "this is not about me." I love that...
>Really?! Or are you being sarchastic? I hate it when he says anything like that. Because for me, sometimes it *is* about how he feels. And when he says it's not, it's like he's decided to ignore half of what's going on in the room.
<When I've said something like that, My Therapist replied that he wished I'd bore him...that would mean I wasn't dealing with so much Sh** still! And we both laughed. Then he usually asks if he has done anything to indicate that he is bored...and THEN I wonder if I DID pick up on something... I try not to ask stuff I really don't want answers too anymore.
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