Posted by joslynn on November 26, 2003, at 13:26:31
In reply to Re: One more thing (Karen Kay), posted by Karen_kay on November 26, 2003, at 12:33:25
It could be that he never complimented your physical appearance because he doesn't do that with anyone? I think I remember reading somewhere that therapists should avoid paying a lot of physical compliments to patients of the opposite sex. I forget where I read that though.
But that doesn't excuse the dumb comment about the other woman! I would feel like he stepped out of therapist mode into guy-checking-out-women mode. Yuck. I would also be disappointed that his tastes were so typical and mainstream, when he has an auburn beauty such as yourself sitting right in front of him!
I don't think it's a dealbreaker though. But I would bring it up, maybe next time you bring in a photo of whatever, say, oh by the way, if you see an attractive woman, you don't need to share it with me like you did last time. That hurt my feelings because the person you found physically attractive is actually not atttractive inside. (or whatever, in your words of course)
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