Posted by crushedout on November 24, 2003, at 19:15:16
In reply to Re: Crushed, How's It Going?, posted by Rigby on November 24, 2003, at 19:07:08
> I get yah. The reason I haven't been able to quit has been because of my attachment. I eventually needed to honor that but funny, the more I confronted how wrapped up I was in her, the less I felt that way. So it's calmed down--at least for now--who knows what the future holds. I can't forget it wasn't long ago I was pretty focused on bedding my therapist. Yikes. I feel really different now.
that's reassuring. and also not. because i guess i'm not ready to give up the fantasy, and the thought that it could go away means it's not as real or something.
> I'm 42 and have been in a relationship with another woman for 12 years. And you?
> > can i ask how old you are? and whether you're in a serious relationship/married?i'm 32 and i've been single for a few months. which i basically like. although if i could marry my t, i'd give it up in a second.
how'd your girlfriend deal with the crush on your t?
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