Posted by Dinah on October 11, 2003, at 21:53:31
In reply to Re: dealing with therapist's transgressions » Dinah, posted by judy1 on October 11, 2003, at 21:19:42
You're right of course, Judy. One is one too many. And the pain to the client is the same.
I think you have a team you can trust now, and you eventually will trust them enough to let them help you. Maybe you'll never trust them to the extent I trust my therapist, or depend on them as much. And probably that's more than ok.
I don't worry about the worst case scenarios as much any more. And on my healthier days I think I may be able to take what I learned from him and move on. Then on my unhealthy days, I think the way I always did. Oh well. Some progress I guess as I get less afraid that he'll abandon me on purpose (or on purpose related to me anyway).
I may be to the point where I might possibly forgive a death.
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