Posted by Willful on January 5, 2011, at 10:26:57
In reply to Re: What can I do? » Solstice, posted by Dinah on January 5, 2011, at 9:40:50
I dont think seeing Phillipa as a poor victim, who needs defenders to champion her cause, is either true or what she needs in this situation.
I'm sorry you were bullied as an adolescent, Dinah. I can see that this was a very traumatic experienced that must have shaped some important elements in your negative self-image. I certainly regret that you had to go through that. But I don't think it's relevant here. And Phillipa is a grown women. She shows, as far as I can see, remarkably little concern or remorse for having upset people here when incidents arise. Perhaps she is privately regretful, but she is very airy in her dismissals and claims of being too busy to be concerned about what's being said. I wish she would earnestly address and consider what's being said.
If she did, I"m sure all this would have been cleared up long ago. But her seeming unconcern may be causing people to feel that she has no intention to change-- and no sense of the damage she may have done.
What exactly she has done-- I don't know-- but I do know for my own fact, that she has done things of this sort in the past. I'm not discussing anything that hasn't been mentioned here at the time-- but quite clearly the activities may be imagined not to have stopped.
Willful
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