Posted by Dinah on November 4, 2009, at 11:27:00
In reply to Re: sigh, i guess you're right, I just » Dinah, posted by rskontos on November 4, 2009, at 11:22:21
I really am confused myself.
I mean, Dr. Bob did agree to a compromise. With a few tweaks, it might well address most of my concerns.
But it's hard just to say, ok now everything is fine, because I don't have a sense that he understands and will commit not to do something like this again. In fact, how can he commit not to do it if he doesn't understand what's wrong?
Still, I feel a bit churlish not to be feeling more willing to forgive and forget and move on. It goes against my grain not to give someone another chance, with the understanding that if they hurt me again in the future, shame on them.
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