Posted by Dr. Bob on July 10, 2009, at 18:36:53
In reply to Re: disengage, posted by Timne on July 10, 2009, at 16:36:54
> > I'd appreciate it if you didn't post anything that could lead others (including me) to feel accused or put down.
>
> Yet you claim that prerogative for yourself?Yes, because I have an administrative role.
> > It's already been explained to you how you can "block yourself" from posting.
>
> Is that a fact? I don't recognize the basis for that claim.Gardenergirl posted one way:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20090707/msgs/906037.html
and I babblemailed you:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20040725/msgs/370201.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20041109/msgs/425614.html> I feel I'm being raped by a psychiatrist.
I don't in fact consider that an I-statement, see:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
so I'm going to consider you blocked from posting for 1 week.
> I am captured as a permanent member of your site, where my user name and my statistic as a user contributes to support for claims to be published in research literature that the number of members reflects some meaningful support.
I can see a parallel with rape: feeling you're being used against your will in some way. I have no plans to try to publish claims like that, but I have in the past, so you may be skeptical of what I say my plans are now.
I'm going to make an exception and remove this name. Trying to think this through:
You'll of course no longer be able to use this name to post, etc.
This name will be removed, not just blocked, so someone else could register with it. Which could be confusing, but we can cross that bridge if we come to it.
I'm still considering you blocked for 1 week, so if you change your mind, please wait at least 1 week to re-register and no matter what name you choose then, follow the steps at:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#names
If you re-engage with this site or me in that or some other way, I may re-engage with you.
> > In a crisis, please also get help in person. You may also wish to check out a listing compiled by a poster of helpful web pages on coping with crisis at:
> >
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/psycho-babble-tips/links/Coping_with_crisis_001012507973
>
> Advise offered here does not comport with what in my experience has been reliable.I'm glad you have reliable sources of advice. Best wishes,
Bob
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