Posted by alexandra_k on June 7, 2009, at 19:42:29
In reply to Re: Lou's request-ru? » alexandra_k, posted by SLS on June 7, 2009, at 18:48:35
> Why don't you just apologize to Greywolf and be done with it.Apologize for what? Apologize that you thought my post 'resembled an attack' even though I certainly didn't intend for it to be (or resemble) an attack and even though I clarified my intention to Greywolf (that in particular I didn't mean it to be sarcastic or anything like that).
Greywolf posted their experience
I posted mine
Then you jumped right on in with an accusation.Instead of taking me at my word (that I didn't intend for what I said to be sarcastic or undermining of anothers experience) you say the lesson you learned was to use the 'report this post' feature.
I said to you quite clearly that I felt hurt that jumped to conclusions about my post (that it 'resembled an attack' and you really don't seem to give a sh*t about how I feel at all even when I went to pains to check that Greywolf was okay about what I had posted (instead of however it was that you thought Greywolf should or should not be feeling about it).
Dr Bob provided a post where everyone involved in the 'controversy' attempted to clarify their intention and minimize potential hurts of others. Except for you. He was explicit in giving you the opportunity to do so. I notice you have done that with everybody except me. Dr Bob tries (exceeding the principle of charity) to 'reinterpret' (or put words in your mouth) that has you participating in this process of helping to put things right. But you decline to do so.
My past experience here is you get the opportunity to be part of that process (sometimes) and then if you decline you get blocked.
I find it ironic (in the Alanis sense which apparently isn't really ironic at all) that given past practice... Given consistency with past practice... Dr Bob really doesn't seem to have any other option but to block you. It is ironic given the topic of this thread and all.
But perhaps he won't. I'm actually thinking he probably won't.
Its okay. You obviously need (and get more out of) this place than me.
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