Posted by alexandra_k on June 4, 2009, at 19:33:12
In reply to Re: Case closed?, posted by alexandra_k on June 4, 2009, at 19:25:33
> Well that depends really.
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> The impression I was getting was that Bob was giving you an opportunity to clarify your intent or apologize for jumping to conclusions about me.
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> The point of the examples were that the other people who were involved in this controversy did attempt to clarify their intent and apologize to others who may have been hurt by what they said.
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> You declined to do so.
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> Whether you are blocked for declining to apologize or rephrase is, well, up to Bob, really.But here I am speculating about what goes on in his mind again. And really, it is a whole heap better for me if I don't try and do that.
How would you feel, Scott, if someone told you that one of your posts 'appears attacking'? How would you feel is someone said that when you really didn't mean for your post to appear that way? How would you feel if the person who said that about your post didn't seem to understand or care that you might well feel upset about their jumping to conclusions about your intent? How would you feel if in response to your saying that you really didn't intend it in that way they said that they regretted saying that because they could have just reported the post (I guess the idea there is the hope that they will be blocked for what they said)
How would you feel?
What do you think I am such that my feelings simply don't matter to you at all?
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