Posted by Lou Pilder on February 6, 2009, at 13:29:32
In reply to Re: » sdb, posted by fayeroe on February 6, 2009, at 10:00:13
> ~~~I have concerns about the deputy punishing system that is based on not clear rules that allows a lot of arbitrariness.
> Punishing people can damage people.~~~
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> I cannot imagine how a poster feels when Babble is their only 'safe' place and they get kicked in the head. If a poster is in a "free world" situation where family and friends aren't supportive, it has to hurt like hell to be kicked out here. I prefer "kicked" over blocked.
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> I've been there and because my investment here is so small, I go my merry way. However I think that so many posters view Babble as family. And most of us already know what rejection/ punishment feels. It sucks.
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> I say "what goes 'round, comes 'round" However when there is so much denial going on that I question whether or not the lesson will be learned. I am not talking about posters, I am talking about administration.fayeroe,
You wrote,[...denial...]
Could you list some examples of the denial that you are referring to? If you could, then I could have the opportunity to examine any examples that you post here and see what could arise out of those situations, concerning how the denial could or could not have the potential, if any, to cause harm to the mental health of any members here.
poster:Lou Pilder
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