Posted by yxibow on March 11, 2008, at 1:16:24
In reply to These are our boards., posted by gardenergirl on March 10, 2008, at 22:37:14
> These boards belong to us. They're ours. I'm not the first to express this. I hope I won't be the last. Either way, tonight, March 10, 2008 I stake our claim to these boards. (Inserts flagpole into virtual ground)
>
> WE are the ones who breathe life into these boards.
> WE make them what they are by expressing ourselves.
> WE do this by
> -asking for information, support, opinions, advice, resources, etc.
> -offering information, support, opinions, advice, resources, etc.
> -forming relationships with each other
> -talking about ourselves, our lives, our loves, our fears, our needs, our dreams, our thoughts, our beliefs, our humanity
> -"listening" to others' talking about themselves, their lives, loves, fears, needs, dreams, thoughts, beliefs, humanity
> -coming together so that one can feel a little less alone
> -laughing, crying, smiling, empathizing, supporting, chatting, grieving, cheering, questioning and being together
> -standing up for each other
> -checking in on each other
> -doing what we can to make this feel safe for all
> -taking what we need and leaving what we can...
>
> And so much more.
>
> This is OUR community. These are OUR boards.
>
> ggUnfortunately if you don't have the knowledge to create an UltimateBB or typical modern boards, register with the cheapest registrar 1&1, and pay for massive MB (megabyte) traffic and email and perl and javascripting, this is roll-your-own a-la-Bob board.
Like it or not, the registrar is:
Domain ID:D1709126-LROR
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Last Updated On:21-Jul-2007 16:26:29 UTC
Expiration Date:03-Aug-2012 04:00:00 UTC
Sponsoring Registrar:Melbourne IT, Ltd. dba Internet Names Worldwide (R52-LROR)
Status:OK
Registrant ID:10687490892460
Registrant Name:Robert Hsiung
Registrant Organization:Robert Hsiung
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Registrant Street3:
Registrant City:Chicago
Registrant State/Province:IL
Registrant Postal Code:60614-0579
Registrant Country:US
Registrant Phone:+1.7737020064
Registrant Phone Ext.:
Registrant FAX:
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Registrant Email:dr-bob@uchicago.edu
Admin ID:10687490896870
Admin Name:Robert Hsiung
Admin Organization:Robert Hsiung
Admin Street1:PO Box 14579
Admin Street2:NULL
Admin Street3:
Admin City:Chicago
Admin State/Province:IL
Admin Postal Code:60614-0579
Admin Country:US
Admin Phone:+1.7737020064
Admin Phone Ext.:
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Admin Email:dr-bob@uchicago.edu
Tech ID:10687490907990
Tech Name:Verio Hostmaster
Tech Organization:Robert Hsiung
Tech Street1:5050 Blue Lake Dr.
Tech Street2:NULL
Tech Street3:
Tech City:Boca Raton
Tech State/Province:FL
Tech Postal Code:33431
Tech Country:US
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Name Server:NS1.SECURE.NET
Name Server:NS2.SECURE.NET
This is publicly available information on WHOIS, so no banning please. I also have my own domains like above for business purposes but I'm never going to reveal my true information here because its part of my private life. Maybe some day when things are better for me I'll write a book, but meanwhile I use an avatar, my board name. But that's a tangent.
My point is, I can sense the anger here and I have left the board at times because I felt it to be a fiefdom. I was banned for a week for triviality, I pretty much left for quite a while because my psychiatrist said it wasn't productive for me.I've since returned and now I see the usual algebra formulas for banning someone for eternity.
1 year??
I can sense now the continuous spew running right now on Medication, minus the nasty and hurtful comments ad hominem about people specifically, reflects an underlying opinion.
People have a lot of DSM-IV conditions and I can understand the anger and frustration, and especially if you have an Axis II disorder or potent psychosis, its sometimes hard to always be "civil."I feel there is a difference between saying sh*t and whatever because of personal problems where grace under fire has not kicked in yet, and ad hominem, patently schadenfreude (there is no English equivalent) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schadenfreude, and character assassination that they cross the border to not being "civil".
I do feel though that there should be a Uncivil forum, that nobody has to visit at all where people are banned and can all be filled with personality complexes until their banned state is exhausted.
Perhaps I'm being a little naive and silly though, but I think if not, there should be bidirectional babblemail enabled anyhow, with either that the banned person cannot communicate with the person they just character assasinated, or if a person receives such a babblemail, they can press a box to ban the babblemail from said person.
Anyhow these are my opinions and while I think we have also had a few tonguelashings at ourselves I can view what you are trying to say
-- tidings
poster:yxibow
thread:817260
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20080204/msgs/817293.html