Posted by Deneb on October 10, 2007, at 12:04:36
My pdoc doesn't think my love for you is harmful. She thinks it's good that I'm forming attachments 'cause before I would just see people as objects. That's what she said. She thinks Babble is good for me.
In real life I kind of don't form relationships with people, but on Babble I have formed some. My pdoc thinks it's great. She thinks it's a transition state for me and maybe someday I'll be able to have a relationship with someone face to face. A lot of times, she tells me to take what I've learned from babble and apply it to real life. On Babble when I chat first I say "Hi" to everyone. She thinks I could try that with people at work.
I'm learning how to have conversations with people on chat. I'm learning how to show care, concern and interest in other people. I have friends on babble so I must be learning. Now I just have to apply this in real life.
She thinks loving you is also a transition state. You're safe to love because we will never have a real relationship. So, you're like practice.
I think the only other thing I got attached to was my hamster hammie.
I have a lot of trouble with relationships, but Babble lets me form some. Thanks for all your hard work.
I'm doing really well these days. I never want to kill myself now. I'm working and going to class and guess what I got on my organic chem II test? I got 91%! Before I got an F because I didn't study. My pdoc was proud of me.
My Mom was worried that I was too engrossed in Babble and that it might prevent me from studying, but that hasn't happened.
Babble also helped me do things I never thought I could do, like fly to D.C. to meet Babblers.
Anyways, I wrote this cuz you were interested in how Babble helped Ron Hill so maybe you're interested in how it helped me too. Maybe we can start this thread about how Babble has helped or not helped us.
(((((Dr. Bob))))) Luv u
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