Posted by muffled on August 20, 2007, at 14:29:26
In reply to Why is asking about hobbies uncivil? » Dr. Bob, posted by zazenducke on August 20, 2007, at 8:30:47
What sort of therapy would help to understand Babble rules. Or would therapy help me realize I am not wanted here?
Seriously did any of you feel supported that Bob blocked me for 3 weeks for this-asking if he had any hobbies besides Babble? At the same time an ad hominem attack on another poster is merely PBCed. I know some of you say you feel "safe" because of Bob's rules. I feel creeped out myself.** Zaz, I'm sorry, I dunno whats going on. You seem to be getting caught in the fence...
Babble 'etiquette' is VERY confusing...:-(
And NO I do not understand why stuff goes the way it goes.
And I would say e-mail Bob, but from what I have heard from others, his replies can be less than satisfactory..:-(
I guess it just comes down to humanity, and huamn failings, and maybe thats where Bob got caughtup in formulas and trying to be overly rigid and and blocking too much...
I am not so much creeped out as saddened and confused.Is it more psychologically healthy just to ignore his behaviour towards me and others? I find it hard to do that. I know many of you are psychologically sophisticated and I would like to know how you deal with this sort of thing rather than rehash the inequities IF ANY (babble disclaimer) which has been done for years on admin.
**I have felt unjustly blocked (eg for bypassing asterisk and writing f*rt?!?. But, now I seem to have this golden cloud of protection around me, for what reason I do not know???? Or mebbe I have just finally figgered out the rules? I don't know.
So I agree, there ARE inequities in MY HO. But that is my personal feeling. Others may not feel the same.
But I also feel that admin here is trying to do the best they can...Would you keep taking part in something which you believe is not fair to some participants? I do but I wonder if it is healthy or ethical to do that?
**Sigh....I been down this road a time or two...and I have tried PC, but I like it here better. NOT necc cuz of admin, but the style of posting, and the people here are wonderful. So I come back.
If I keeped getting bashed, I guess I would sadly walk away :-( I would hate to see you walk away :-( But I understand if you do.
I wish I could change things, but change is hard here.
I hope your doing OK.
I hope you come back.
I'm sorry.
MuffledI would appreciate your thoughts on this. Thanks
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