Posted by Lou PIlder on January 30, 2007, at 19:44:41
In reply to Re: Lou's reply to deputy gardenergirl-ezr » Lou PIlder, posted by gardenergirl on January 30, 2007, at 19:23:39
> Never mind, Lou.
>
> I know your concerns are valid to you. But I feel offended when reading your hypotheses about the meaning of my words. I likely would also feel accused were you to express those hypotheses as statements about your beliefs rather than as response choices. That seems like a fuzzy line to me.
>
gardenergirl,
You wrote,[...never mind...]
If you mean that I am to not consider what you wrote to me here about resending the notification, then I feel sorry that you are retracting your discussing such with me.
You wrote,[...I know your concerns are valid to you...]
Yes, they are deeply valid to me, and I thought that in your post to me that you also were concerned, for you innitiated dialog with me.
I responded with a concern for clarification from you so that there could be less chance of any misunderstandings.
You wrote,[...your hypotheses about the meanings...]
I made no assumption about what your words mean, for I want to have clarificaztion from the author of the words so that I do not make an assumption. I still am unsure as to the requests from me to you here to clarify as to what you mean by what you wrote. If you could clarify those for me, then I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly, but without knowing what you mean I could have a difficult time having dialog with you and would rather clarify before misunderstsndings could happen.
Lou
poster:Lou PIlder
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