Posted by holymama on October 16, 2005, at 21:09:34
In reply to Re: I disagree, » holymama, posted by alexandra_k on October 16, 2005, at 20:39:42
Here is the link to Deneb's being blocked:http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20051015/msgs/567834.html
> Then it might be wise to look at what we know about how much involountary hospitalisation assists alleviating peoples pain.
True, I see your point about that. That is definitely something I will have to think about.
> What kind of help is she asking for, what kind does she need?
> Why not...
> Ask her?
> Most people like to feel that other people are empathising with them and value them rather than trying to 'do things to them' (ie interveane) at the very least...
True.............and I would like to ask her what kind of help she is looking for.
> She's just such a complex person, asking for advice, yet not really taking any, screaming out again and again that she was in pain. It's unnerving to sit and watch it. I don't know how to deal with that. That's MY issue. I tried to talk with her, tried to empathize, and usually that helps with people. That thread got longer and longer, more and more people trying to help...and it just got worse. Then there were the threats. At that point, did anyone know what to do?Thanks for chatting with me Alexandra, I can see many points here, I'm really just left with a sad feeling that Deneb just got lost and we've all been arguing. Good points have been made and maybe we've all learned from it, but poor Deneb.
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