Posted by gabbii on August 5, 2005, at 21:58:55
In reply to Re: I should have said » gabbii, posted by crazy teresa on August 5, 2005, at 21:24:43
> I don't recall stating that I avoid conflict,
I hadn't said that you did avoid conflict anywhere. I inferred that you thought it was 'better' from what you said here:
Isn't anyone willing to be the bigger/better person (in your own mind) and walk away from all the spatting on this board,
nor did I question anyone's maturity.
>I took that from what you said here:
>I am curiously reminded of my grade school aged children; as an adult, I need to know when something is terribly wrong, but I do not need to know about or become involved in every petty dispute that occurs every 5 minutes.> I did not say I do not understand the reason for Admin. threads.
I was referring to this:
enjoyed? Am I seeing anger issues or fun?> I did not generalize. I gave specific examples.
I was referring to the title of your post.
"Generally speaking"
Yet 3 more examples of what I'm talking about! MUCH more is read into posts than what they actually say. I was curious as to why there is so much fighting that goes on and whether or not you enjoy it and how Dr. Bob and the deputies feel about it bexcaue of the positions they're in.
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> There was really no reason to refer to some other posts that could make others feel bad, now was there?
>There was a reason to refer to a post. As an example of reading more into posts than there is, I absolutely meant no insult to anyone who enjoyed that thread. Spriggy is one of my favorite posters.
I simply meant, different strokes for different folks. There was nothing inferred by it.Some like "Reality T.V" some like "Sit Coms"
Had I made judgement on it by labelling it petty, reminiscent of children, then that would be a judgement, and it's quite likely I meant to make someone feel bad, or that it was going to happen.Did you think that anyone involved in the "over analyzation and spatting" on the admin board might feel bad?" Maybe someone who didn't think their questions were over analyzing or defending themselves was spatting?
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