Posted by Minnie-Haha on August 1, 2005, at 22:27:12
In reply to Re: The post was about BEHAVIOR... » Minnie-Haha, posted by gardenergirl on August 1, 2005, at 21:26:15
> Nice to see your name here, however briefly.
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> I just wanted to add my two cents here, although I have no idea why.
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> I think when a behavior is characterized as being "accusatory and offensive", anyone who engages or has engaged in said behavior might feel put down. My interpretation is that characterizing a behavior as "offensive" is what got the block...Hey GG! Good to be back... briefly. This probably falls into splitting hairs, but note that what I wrote was "Others besides myself have tried to address this issue and ended up leaving, all for just wanting to at least modify (if not squelch) a behavior THEY FIND accusatory and offensive." That is to say, "I/We feel accused/offended when you/he/she behaves that way." I did not say the behave is or was accusatory or offensive... only that some "find it" (feel) that way.
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