Posted by alexandra_k on January 25, 2005, at 21:22:43
In reply to Re: Actually » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on January 25, 2005, at 21:06:56
> I'll bash my head against that wall even if I haven't a chance at making a dent.
> I don't mind dinging my head a bit. But I hate being angry at the wall. :(
Sorry, but I can't keep up the wall analogy...
There are two things: Dr B and the issue.
You have strong feelings about the issue.
Maybe by discussing it you can come to see that there are many ways in which you can view the issue.
You might still have strong feelings, but you might not be so disappointed / angry with Dr B for seeing it differently.
It is possible that he might come to see it your way. Not likely, but possible. And it is possible that you might come to see things his way. Not likely, but possible.
There are other people who may be undecided how to view it...
What you have to say might encourage him to approach this in a more sensitive way than he would have otherwise.
Try not to see it as banging your head up against a wall.
There are more things than the issue of whether the wall will budge. Aren't there?
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