Posted by yoshimi on November 8, 2004, at 23:40:57
In reply to Re: And have I stopped beating my wife? » yoshimi, posted by Dinah on November 8, 2004, at 23:27:13
I suppose I would see it as more therapeutically beneficial to ask for an apology and voice your hurt to the people who you felt hurt by then to ask Dr. Bob if it is civil. Because was clear that it was uncivil.
Im sorry you feel that you are divorcing babble. You said "I keep turning here to try to invest myself again, to try to maintain the connection, and things keep happening to break it. And I don't want that to happen."
But to me that happens in relationships all the time and its part of the pain of living in our own heads and no one actually being able to *be* us and have had all the same experiences and DNA and all that makes us the person we are. Im not sure exactly what happened to break it this time.
I guess I just see it as the ups and downs of relationships. Or maybe I am just not understanding what is going on.In any case, I will let this thread stop, I know you seem to want it to. I hope you feel better soon.
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