Posted by Sad Sara on November 5, 2004, at 19:19:43
In reply to Re: moving forward » Dr. Bob, posted by verne on November 5, 2004, at 19:10:19
> > > Isn't it just possible to say that you both have hurt each other and agree on that that isn't acceptable?
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> > > Sad Sara
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> This is just a polite way of telling Nikki to "get over it" - a kind of peace at ANY cost that disregards her welfare and leaves unanswered the simple question: why her original post was singled out in the first place.
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> This is also "pressuring" her - another thing I thought wasn't allowed.
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> Civility sure changes depending on the viewpoint. Mary Bowers where are you?
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> verne
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>Please do not put meaning into my words that is not there, my words were to Lou, and not to Nikki in this case.
Dr. Bob: please do not quote me without bringing in everything I said to prevent my words to seem different than I meant them.
I agree that it seems like civility seems to change according to viewpoint on this board.
poster:Sad Sara
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