Posted by Jai Narayan on October 16, 2004, at 10:29:16
In reply to Re: dynamics getting in the way of support, posted by Dr. Bob on October 16, 2004, at 4:45:48
I see what you mean about the flight/fight dynamic getting in the way of support.
The post by Mary Bowers generated for me "fear of loss" of the site.
That fear (akin to hate?) activated my desire to defend the site and you Dr. Bob.
My actions/reactions to continue to get what I want: the site to continue unimpeded.
And yet the introduction of fear (flight/fight) in fact brought into play the very thing I was fighting and set up: an impediment.
all of which took me off task: support.very interesting article. I copied it to reread later.
I have been involved with groups all my life and find this article fascinating.Dr. Bob, I had wanted to follow the other two articles but they didn't connect to the link.
thanks
It's always interesting here on babble.
Jai
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