Posted by Dr. Bob on October 11, 2004, at 5:29:51
In reply to Re: please be civil--dr bob, posted by newwife on October 9, 2004, at 19:36:07
> > > i am in management in a hotel, and i learned that no matter what, there will always be those guests that check in and nothing you do will ever make them happy, and after you try and try and try there comes a time where you have to say, "sir/mam obviously we are not going to be able to make you happy, so i would be glad to make other arrangments for you at another hotel."
> >
> > You just offer that, or you force them to leave?
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> no, i dont force people to leave.So if they want to stay, they can stay?
In that case, in this context, where arrangements don't need to be made elsewhere, wouldn't it just convey that they aren't welcome?
> why do i feel like i am being punished for a post that i spent an hour to write and an hour to be very careful with my wording.
Sorry, I don't mean to make you feel punished -- or low or rejected or humiliated or anything. And I appreciate the time you took with your wording. But, ridiculous though it may sound, it can take a lot longer than an hour to learn your way through this "minefield"...
Bob
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