Posted by Dinah on October 9, 2004, at 7:54:28
In reply to Re: Is it worth fighting for » Dinah, posted by AuntieMel on October 6, 2004, at 10:29:25
I was thinking about this, and how very true what you say is. I was also thinking that maybe one of the skills involved in having a successful relationship with Babble is accepting that we do interact with others based a lot on perceptions. And learning to react less when evidence comes up that we, or I, I suppose really, can be rather extravagantly wrong about others. Not to get as angry about it, or to take it as personally. Just to accept it, be glad of the times that I am correct, and move on after making a slight adjustment in expectations.
Of course, I have no idea if I'm making any sense, if I'm responding appropriately to what you were attempting to say, or being at all relevant. :)
I think it's still more of a problem for me when it's Dr. Bob, and that's on my big list of unsolved issues. But I think I'm making some strides there too.
Does any of this make any sense to you, or echo any of your own experiences?
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