Posted by Dinah on August 12, 2003, at 3:08:42
In reply to Re: support site for spouses of *non-posters*?, posted by Dr. Bob on August 12, 2003, at 1:29:05
> > My husband and I actually discussed this. We see two serious problems. First, we'd meet on admin, and second, that although we might each agree not to peek, we might receive second hand reports.
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> That's *non-posters*, so he wouldn't be eligible here...
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> Bob
>On a more serious note Dr. Bob. I had occasion to be at my computer for a long stretch of time today. I spent the time looking up other support sites, for spouses, for people with my disorder(s), even a professional site.
At the risk of sounding like a sycophant, all of them (including the professional one) were sadly lacking your moderation and civility guidelines. I wouldn't wish any of them on my exceedingly civil husband.
A support board for spouses and/or families with a moderated and civil atmosphere would be a great service. Unfortunately, I'm all too aware that some support might be appreciated. In the event that you add such a board, I'm sure that my husband and I could work out an arrangement where we could trust each other to respect our mutual privacy. And I would ask that he would be allowed to post there. Now whether or not he would choose to might be another matter. :) But I'd like him to have the option. He'd just have to forego the admin board. :)
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