Posted by zenhussy on June 23, 2003, at 10:11:43
In reply to Re: please be civil - me and zenhussy » Dr. Bob, posted by wendy b. on June 23, 2003, at 8:10:10
wendy b.--->>Sorry, Bob, but I can't help but feel put down and maligned by that post. I know Dinah feels she would never ever do that, but if you read the entire exchange again, including the one on Admin over this topic, you might see that I was not uncivil in attributing these intentions to Dinah.
And it doesn't matter if she says she wouldn't do such a thing. She did do it. And then retracted a whole line of thought over anonymous posters, after hurting some genuine feelings.
It's not just a matter of "You read it one way, I read it another." Sometimes things are either calculated to assuage pain, or they are calculated to cause more.
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Dinah -->> To speak of private matters in a public setting, in such a way that deliberately excludes others, that I would not do. To be proud of it.... That I do not even understand.
wendy b. -->>> this seems calculated to make SOMEBODY feel badly> > > Wendy
Dr. Bob -->>> Please don't jump to conclusions about others.zenhussy -->> I am baffled by the open arms and slobbery kisses offered up to some and the cold suspicious shoulder shown to others.
> > > There are many people here who have shown extreme kindness and empathy to almost anyone who comes to this space and to see those very same people shun a suicidal gal breaks my heart.
> > > zhDr. Bob-->>> Or post anything that could lead others to feel accused.
> > Bob
> > PS: Follow-ups regarding posting policies, and complaints about posts, should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration, thanks.Dr. Bob,
So when wendy b. and I feel accused of something written by any other poster on these boards it isn't important enough to merit a pbc or please rephrase that but when we express our opinions regarding what wendy b. has so eloquently stated above we're the ones being told to be civil?
I truly do not understand the rhyme or reasons behind how certain posters "appear" to be allowed to post as they please, accusations and all, while others type a word or two and are immediately pbc'd.
Very confused about your policies,
zenhussy
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