Posted by wendy b. on November 1, 2002, at 18:53:02
In reply to Re: a kinder, gentler board, posted by Dr. Bob on November 1, 2002, at 0:08:23
You've reminded us in the past to stop pressuring others to answer specific questions, for example. So I think IsoM should be given a break. I think I've read about 5 times in the last few days where you've repeatedly asked her to moderate, and she has told you why she doesn't want to, and yet you still keep asking her. I wonder why you are doing this? And just saying IsoM is a good, fair, equitable person, would not, in my view, be an acceptable response to my question, even though it's true she IS all of those things. It feels like you're badgering her...
Wendy> > I know you feel a need to strictly moderate these boards, but I would do so in a much more gentle & amiable manner. I would do my best to bring out the best in other posters & encourage feedback to iron out problems. I think it helps people with mental/emotional disorders grow & learn to better to get along.
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> So would you like to give it a try here? :-)
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> Bob
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