Posted by beardedlady on August 3, 2002, at 8:39:04
In reply to Re: civility, posted by shar on August 3, 2002, at 2:55:42
>Shar: Maybe it is part of the fun of hit and run to stir things up and then enjoy the aftermath.
>Bob: Fun like that I wish people would go elsewhere for...
>Shar: as do I. We are in complete agreement here.Your implication here is that it's something I enjoy. You are wrong.
>Shar: it seems more mature to let people feel what they feel
>Bob: People are always free to *feel* what they feel.
>Shar: true, true, existentially speaking. It does, however, take a certain amount of maturity on the part of OTHERS to let >>
>people be about how they feel, to not harass them over and over about it. Key word, I suppose is "let" as in "allow" or as in >"leave people alone" to be in their own spot about an issue, even if it is one that somebody else disapproves of or dislikes or >is uncomfortable with or does not understand.I don't really appreciate this holier-than-thou attitude. You are no better than those you accuse. You reminded me of something I said in a post, just as I reminded someone else. Whether you were absolutely specific or quoted verbatim or were vague, you did the same thing. Call it what you want, disguise it as something else, but put your finger down. I'm tired of having it pointed at me.
I wasn't harassing anyone "over and over" about something. But it seems that you are harassing me (however indirectly in this specific post) over and over about this. I would like you to stop now.
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