Posted by ChicagoKat on September 26, 2012, at 7:20:56
In reply to Re: I'm in trouble, posted by SLS on September 26, 2012, at 6:20:16
> Hi Jane.
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> I think your first paragraph set a tone that I immediately reacted to in a negative manner, such that I was tempted to post a reply to. I decided to watch rather than post to see where things went. I still don't fully understand that first paragraph, and I was hoping you would explain it at some point.
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> "Give the guy a break. It seems to me he is supporting you in what you said you wanted to do."
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> Perhaps I misunderstand what Kat's husband was supporting. I thought that it was Kat's plan to commit suicide that her husband was particularly willing to support.
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> In spite of your opening paragraph, I thought your second paragraph offered very important insights that I wish I had thought of myself.
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> Dear ChicagoKat,
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> Please correct me if I am wrong. Also, it would be helpful if you were to share your thoughts and feelings so that we might better understand you and the situation you find yourself in. Considering your proximity to committing suicide, doing so might provide the support and coping strategies that you need right now.
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> - Scott
>My original post was a cry for help because when I told my husband that I planned to commit suicide if the Nardil didn't help - and I as absolutely, completely serious about this at the time - it seemed he didn't care at all, just wanted to know what to do if that eventuality occurred. It made me feel like he didn't love me, didn't care if I died, would be glad to be rid of me. That's why I posted here on psycho babble b/c none of my loved ones want to hear my misery from me anymore.
Kat
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