Posted by morgan miller on September 30, 2011, at 0:52:49
In reply to morgan miller, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on September 29, 2011, at 22:02:27
> Yes I think a therpist would be good again. I need to see a therpist. I also need to stop blaming people for my errors and take it in for myself and take responsiblity. I do have alot of complications. Like today I went in to work and they sent me home for not being productive. I need to be on a stimulant for attention purposes. These are the goals: to get my own place, pay for my insurance, and being able to support myself. I don't know how I am going to do it but I need to find a way to do it quick. Thank you for your imput.
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> MattFocus first on feeling well and loving yourself. No need to rush too fast to do the other stuff, though they are important.
The other people in your life likely do have some blame in your struggles(i.e. your parents). This is something you will have to address in therapy and use it as a tool to understand things better in a way that you can be more compassionate with yourself. You need to let yourself off the hook to some extent, otherwise you will end up hardened like so many other people out there. Another thing to be careful of is not to get bitter when you start to understand more about how your childhood affected you. There will be anger, but it is important to try hard to deal with it in the right way.
Take care Matt, hope things start to turn around soon.
Morgan
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