Posted by Lou Pilder on October 6, 2010, at 20:33:59
In reply to Re: Lou's response-, posted by mfarrellr on October 6, 2010, at 20:09:51
> Thank you Lou. I will try but as she thinks everything is fine I do not know how receptive she will be. I am out of Ideas her best friend of 25 years cannot get through to her as our daughters. I spend a lot of time helping her when she needs anything. Her friend says I should just stop helping so much and back away. I have started doing that and a couple of days ago she said she filed for divorce and wants to get together to go over the papers. But I will try.
mfarrellr,,
I see that the involvment of the drug mentioned could make a difference between your situation and other situations that are common today.
You see, in a turn around here, I knew a woman that divorced her husband because of his change in behavior. She deceided in one day to file the divorce and not dismiss it. What she did not know was that the husband had started taking a psychotropic drug.
After 15 years, she discoverd that the drug that the man was taking could have caused his behavior. She sought to find him, but when she did, she found that he had stopped the drug and was remarried. What a difference a day made. Perhaps if you tell her this story, there could be a window opened to dismiss the divorce.
Lou
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