Posted by Meri-Tuuli on May 7, 2007, at 15:59:22
In reply to Re: Does this happen to normal people?, posted by Ines on May 6, 2007, at 17:27:28
> Someone I know went out with a guy on a first date, and he took her to a nudist beach where all of his friends were hanging out. She got introduced to his ex girlfriend and other friends- all stark naked!- who then proceded to insist they stayed for a BBQ so they could get to know her. She said she had never felt more awkward in her life! Needless to say they didn't make it to a 2nd date but boy was that a hilarious story!
Well (to talk like an American), I think that would cross my boundaries of what I am comfortable with too!! Its one thing to go to a beach with said brother on holiday where we don't know anyone and chances are, we won't ever see them again, but ummm, first date terrority? Nonononono!Although everyone here goes nude in the sauna (this is Finland!) but its always single sex. I find it quite refreshing to be honest - its really nice to see proper female bodies how they really are. We get all these stupid media images of bodies (all of which have been manipulated digitally!) bombarded at us, its easy to forget what real bodies look like! Although when I was a kid we all had family saunas -- uncles, aunts, cousins all in together -- even the dog!! Some people find that strange.....but anyway it wouldn't be first date material!
Anyway.
Kind regards
Meri
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