Posted by UgottaHaveHope on August 25, 2006, at 12:59:35
In reply to Re: Time to say goodbye?, posted by willyee on August 25, 2006, at 6:10:48
Willyee, oh man, I can relate to that so well. You meet a significant other and then beat yourself up about "I don't want to be a burden to her. I don't think she is going to like me still when she find out the truth about me." What I have come to realize is that this is the GREAT LIE that the devil puts in our minds. Because the TRUTH is everyone (and I mean everyone put on this Earth) has issues they are dealing with. Hers may not be depression or anxiety, but it could be a lack of self esteem, or being a workaholic, or fear of intimacy, or thinking she is not attractive, I dont know, something. There is always something, no one is perfect. To me, and I'm sure you feel the same way, TRUE LOVE is finding somone to accept you how you are, "warts and all."
> > i think about fellow sufferers,its one of the things that helps me keep going is to know im not the only one,and there are people as myself who wish i could help every single one of us including myself,i am 27,and with modesty am a good looking guy work out since 16,told all the time how "good i look" yet i am totaly alone,theres no way i can land a woman to accept the up and downs,so i too am extremly lonly and have been single a long time <<
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