Posted by retrojen on July 21, 2004, at 15:04:37
In reply to Re: new hubby's pill-popping, MJ, alcohol and Viagra, posted by Wildman on July 21, 2004, at 13:29:48
Thank you Wildman , for sharing your experience. I want to have compassion for him and reading your post helps me hang onto that.
Right now though, with the blatant lying, I feel my back is up against the wall. I asked him to do 2 things. First, make an appointment with his primary car doc so we can all three talk over the situation. Second, I want him to get appointments with a psychiatrist and urologist. He refused both, and also lied saying that his Viagra and Cialis were prescribed by the urologist.
Without him doing those two things, (in addition to being honest) I can't trust him. He'll just keep lying and keep hiding and go even further underground.
I wish I had grabbed the file, but I really didn't think he'd persist in lying when I asked. I'm sure he's locked it up or destroyed the evidence, but it doesn't really matter. I know, because I put it all in chronological order and pieced together original prescription dates, refill dates and prescribing doc. I double checked so I would have a full understanding before I talked with him.
What can I do to get through to him?
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