Posted by Eddie Sylvano on September 17, 2003, at 17:10:24
In reply to WOW » zarathustra, posted by KimberlyDi on September 17, 2003, at 17:02:29
>I am married, for the 4th time, to a semi-stranger. So many times, I look at him, and wonder.. "is that all?" just food, sex, practical jokes & sleep? that's all he needs and thinks about? what about theories? analyzing things? learning new things? seeing the world?
---------How long did you date before you married this guy? I've been through one marriage to an incompatible before. As you said, she didn't really think about anything that wasn't required for her to get through the day. I think a lot of people are like that (or they don't let on otherwise, anyway). It's the difference between people who live in the world, and people who live in their head. If the things in your life don't interest you, you've got nowhere else to go for novelty than into yourself. If only it didn't typically lead to isolation and depression.
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