Posted by omega man on May 5, 2002, at 5:15:23
In reply to Ugly.., posted by LiLAngelJenna on May 3, 2002, at 19:20:09
its true there is a certain human idea of what is attrictive and some of us get a raw deal...
look on the good side you're going to weed out all the people who just want relationships based on looks...
the love of my life was considered ugly by everyone ...theres a certain beauty of the soul in her ugliness ..a certain strangeness that drew an abstract person like me to her...
I found that being good looking by everyday standards created such pressure I needed someone who was physically offputting visally to others to take away the pressure when out and about..
I loved my girlfriends ugliness....strange but true..
as for those people who criticize you..I bet they criticize everything anyway...or think in very definite terms ..are you from a jewish or muslim family ?..sounds like a mentally abusive scenario or maybe they just don't know any better and have no idea the effect they have on you..
you sound very strong but sometimes you need to...run away..believe me the world may be a hard place but its probaly a holiday compared to a day with your family ....
Some families are tough brained by genetics..or culture..I just had to get out myself...save become like them..
live well and be happy..whatever you have to do..
poster:omega man
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