Posted by tina on July 30, 2000, at 18:45:49
In reply to Re: Feeling neglected » Rach, posted by Nibor on July 30, 2000, at 18:33:20
Rach: Been there. I spent months on the couch. I would force myself out of bed in the morning and go directly to the couch and not move. Everytime I thought, I better get something done, I would say to myself what's the point or why bother or I don't like doing that anyway........Every excuse in the book. I don't really have any advice for you except "it will pass" The right meds, the right time for you and it will pass. Sometimes you just have to take care of yourself and wallow a bit before you get better but you WILL get better. Nibor asked you what other things you like to do, I'd be interested in knowing too. If you can pick yourself up and reach out to us for help when you are feelig this way, it's proof you WANT to feel better so you will. It will just take a little time, patience and effort. The effore will come when you are ready. Keep talking though. I'll be here to listen. If you want a kick in the butt, I can do that to. Just let me know what you need and I'll do my best for ya, ok? If I made it through, you can believe--you will.
Take care of yourself, I do care what happens to you
Write again soon with your interests and hobbies and anything else that tickles your fancy. It's what we are all here for.
Peace and hugs
Tina
> > I am in such a state at the moment. I have determination to get better, and I have always been a stubborn thing, but then sometimes I just really cannot be bothered. I mean, why should I bother getting out of bed in the morning - what does it matter......
>
> Sure it matters--Getting IN to bed when you're tired and looking forward to getting comfortable and going to sleep is what feels so good. But you can't do that if you're already in bed. So you miss out on one of the great pleasures of life.
> Tell me what you're studying. What other things do you like to do? Where do you live? (I'm new here.)
> And I'm sorry I didn't answer you directly on the SuperHero thread; my message was to everyone who answered the original post.
> Take care,
> Super Nibor
>
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