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Posted by Christ_empowered on December 16, 2014, at 22:19:41
I've always been a bit too feminine. OK. I was drag queen material in HS. I'm 30 now, and I'm not drag queen material, lol. People say I'm "too feminine," "too graceful," etc.
I dunno. I actually have a solid masculine identity now, which I didn't before. I had this hazy, kinda androgynous identity.
How can I quit alienating men? I am homosexual, but I'm celibate (yes, its a religious thing, and no, I don't try to push that on others too much...personal beliefs).
Here's what's weird about gender issues...now that my masculinity is developing and everything, women no longer pity me and men openly disrespect me, whereas before, women pitied me and men condescended to me, despised me, and/or objectified me (low on the totem pole, homosexual, and too pretty. Loads of fun).
ugh! I get the sense I may have to move when possible.
Posted by alexandra_k on December 18, 2014, at 18:32:59
In reply to when you alienate your own sex/gender, posted by Christ_empowered on December 16, 2014, at 22:19:41
hey. i don't know what to say... but i did want to say that i'm listening. i'm reading your posts, i mean. i start writing posts... but i'm just cr*pp*ng on... i just want to you know that at least me (and probably a bunch of others) are following along and sending kind vibes your way...
Posted by no rose garden on December 21, 2014, at 0:35:38
In reply to when you alienate your own sex/gender, posted by Christ_empowered on December 16, 2014, at 22:19:41
I agree that you should move! I'm not sure where you are, but sounds like Texas to me! Stay strong and know that the other people are the ones with the issues, not you. And it sucks that they have to be so rude.
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