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Posted by rjlockhart37 on December 18, 2013, at 19:44:05
applied for help from being disablied when i was 18 from addiction, and other issues, i just don't get it, they have TONS of psych exams, you know this leaves me in the ruins of shiiity places.....no one knows my pain, i wish i could be asleep along time and never wake up, not because of this stupid disability thing, but its my whole life, i truely want to cry about feeling i can't control things, the rejection, the isolation i could of spent with people to help my pain, it's so much pain inside me, i can't describe it, it's more than just having a little cry, i want to scream for hours.
God....i wrote all this stuff about teenage talk, and then i write this about myself, they would think im crazy....but in a reaction to that, i can't just sit and suffer and not do anything, get out and do something about it, other day i was shaving and i looked at the razor and thought about my wrists for second.... but also knowing i am in school, and looked at my wallet and told myself to put money it, no im getting married and i will have a good career....so don't worry about that
well....enough with boohoo stuff, ill get through it, but who evver reads this you know about my inner feelings of pain....don't worry about me, i don't want a bunch of people to think sorry for me.....that gets someone no where....it's a waste of time....i just had to ventthank you for reading...
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Posted by Angela2 on December 18, 2013, at 20:04:30
In reply to disability denied claim, posted by rjlockhart37 on December 18, 2013, at 19:44:05
Hey Rj, How are you feeling now? I hope better. are you saying you got denied disability? I'm not sure I understand what you are saying exactly. No worries if you don't feel like answering. I feel like I missed something and haven't read previous posts that may explain.
It's ok to have problems. Maybe it's even normal to have problems. Also, in terms of extreme emotion, I know how you feel. It's a sh*tty roller coaster it sucks. I had a therapist once though, who told me something like, if you're having a bad day, wait a little while, do something to distract yourself, etc. Emotion is energy in motion. It's not permanent. Anywho, hope you're feeling better.
Posted by rjlockhart37 on December 18, 2013, at 20:06:36
In reply to disability denied claim, posted by rjlockhart37 on December 18, 2013, at 19:44:05
im sorry about the boohoo post, i need to clean all that emotions up. But anyways i got a letter in the mail today, they said i was denied because i didnt meet the their requirements, and after that.....well not much i can do....but really disability is not that importmant, i've got school going and the money income will ocme elsewhere....in one of the psych reports it distinctly told them i needed to apply for social security...
so.....it is what it is, and all the psych exams that distinctily told them of the things that cause me not being able to do things normal....its vary hard for me to keep jobs, it takes alot of extra energy to keep me on task, and doing things accuratly...all my life i've been known to screw up things, do things backwards, disorganized, its just crazy... but maybe just keep applying, who cares about failure, focus on and look up to better things....
anyways, im feeling wasted i wrote the yakkdy yak yak post above.....
but it is what it is.....
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Posted by Phillipa on December 18, 2013, at 22:21:55
In reply to Re: read this one, facts, posted by rjlockhart37 on December 18, 2013, at 20:06:36
RJ you can appeal it. Will your Dad help? Phillipa
Posted by rjlockhart37 on December 18, 2013, at 22:59:07
In reply to Re: read this one, facts » rjlockhart37, posted by Phillipa on December 18, 2013, at 22:21:55
my dad is living about 50-100miles from me....my mother helped get the paperwork, because its hard for me to rerember what medical place4s i went to....
but im looking, i don't know if i can reapply, it is what it is, but all the jobs i've worked at, the longest one i worked for was the Gap, and i did ok there and there was a coworker there who harassed me, and then made me mad, and i had to leave, not because i was getting fired but they cut my hours all the way down in 3 hours a week....and of course they wouldnt tell me why, i did know why because they didnt like me. So....all the other jobs i've had went quick....
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i just can't believe with all the evideince, not to mention my state right now at home....they denied it. I mean i can do things fine, but i get to a point where i fail at doing easy tasks....so i hope the appeal will work, i need some kinda of assistance with the goverment...until i can fully get on my feet and not have to be dependent.....
thanks phillipa
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Posted by Moishe Pipik on December 19, 2013, at 12:53:08
In reply to Re: read this one, facts, posted by rjlockhart37 on December 18, 2013, at 22:59:07
RJ, I don't know if you're in the US or not. If you are, then it's pretty well known that Social Security denies the majority of first applications for disability (I have some inside dope, because my wife is a social worker who deals with this stuff every day). That is why there are so many law firms advertising "help" on TV - I can't count how many commercials I see every day from firms that actually specialize on SS appeals.
So, like it or not, you have to go through the process, jump through a lot of hoops, and hope it goes your way in the end.
Good luck!
Posted by Phillipa on December 19, 2013, at 18:24:44
In reply to Re: read this one, facts, posted by Moishe Pipik on December 19, 2013, at 12:53:08
RJ this is correct information. New an attorney. Hence your Dad might be able to help? Phillipa
Posted by rjlockhart37 on December 23, 2013, at 21:15:08
In reply to Re: read this one, facts, posted by Phillipa on December 19, 2013, at 18:24:44
well, my dad is in weatherford tx, he doesnt practice law anymore....i am still trying to keep in contact....but the disability is not really an option anymore i am support to support my own income ....i've applied at various places for jobs....the social security has denied my claim, despite all my psych exams, and my condition at home.....i have to move on....it's not going to do any good to stay and dwelling on it will just cause more failure. I will succeed...thats my motto
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Posted by Phillipa on December 23, 2013, at 22:24:57
In reply to Re: read this one, facts, posted by rjlockhart37 on December 23, 2013, at 21:15:08
Did your Dad retire? Does your Brother practice now? Phillipa
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