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I stood up for myself!

Posted by Christ_empowered on January 26, 2012, at 3:39:00

This guy I talk to sometimes online makes these condescening remarks, like "You're so humble. I could never live like that," and "your bipolar is only as bad as you make it out be." Then he tries to psychoanalyze me. Oh, and he'd try to get me to go on a gay date with him, even though I've told him being gay isn't kosher with my religious beliefs.

So, I told him: You condescend to me too often and I don't want to be gay with you, or anyone.

Too harsh? I think just about right, but I'm not sure.

 

Re: I stood up for myself! » Christ_empowered

Posted by Phillipa on January 26, 2012, at 10:26:59

In reply to I stood up for myself!, posted by Christ_empowered on January 26, 2012, at 3:39:00

I feel you handled yourself very well. Told it as it was, stated your beliefs. Phillipa

 

Re: I stood up for myself!

Posted by gadchik on January 26, 2012, at 10:28:52

In reply to I stood up for myself!, posted by Christ_empowered on January 26, 2012, at 3:39:00

you should definitely tell a person that you arent interested in a relationship,if they are inquiring about it,and you dont want it.

 

Re: I stood up for myself! » Christ_empowered

Posted by ed_uk2010 on February 1, 2012, at 13:46:39

In reply to I stood up for myself!, posted by Christ_empowered on January 26, 2012, at 3:39:00

>"your bipolar is only as bad as you make it out be."

I'm not even sure what that is supposed to mean! He probably doesn't know either.

>Oh, and he'd try to get me to go on a gay date with him, even though I've told him being gay isn't kosher with my religious beliefs.

I don't think he would be suitable for you. Perhaps you will come to terms with yourself when you meet someone nicer.

>So, I told him: You condescend to me too often and I don't want to be gay with you, or anyone.
>
> Too harsh? I think just about right, but I'm not sure.

I don't know, and I'm not sure it matters. It doesn't sound like you are the best of friends. Why not chat to someone else?


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