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Posted by zenhussy on June 9, 2009, at 21:39:50
spoke to him by phone a little earlier this evening. he said it was okay to post this.
not sure how long his visit will be and doubtful he'll have web access inside but would be nice for him to see some msgs of support once he's out.
Phil,
You made a great choice by calling your doc and following his instructions today to admit yourself to the psych ward.
Proud you are taking that kind of care of yourself.
You'll have great book material by the time you're released.
stay strong. we all need you alive.
zennie
Posted by Cass on June 9, 2009, at 22:05:36
In reply to Phil is in the ha ha house, posted by zenhussy on June 9, 2009, at 21:39:50
Hey, Phil. I've been in the hospital recently, too! Congrats on your decision. I'll be holding you in my thoughts!
Posted by Dinah on June 9, 2009, at 23:16:37
In reply to Phil is in the ha ha house, posted by zenhussy on June 9, 2009, at 21:39:50
Phil, I'm so glad you kept yourself safe.
I've missed seeing you around here lately, but I can't imagine what it would be like if you were gone.
Posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2009, at 0:00:01
In reply to Re: Phil is in the ha ha house, posted by Dinah on June 9, 2009, at 23:16:37
Phil I'm also glad you're keeping yourself safe. A quick recovery to you. Love Phillipa
Posted by Tabitha on June 10, 2009, at 2:17:37
In reply to Phil is in the ha ha house, posted by zenhussy on June 9, 2009, at 21:39:50
Hey Phil,
Wish I could send you a box of ho-ho's. Glad you're safe and I hope you'll pop in and say hi once you're back home.
T
Posted by SLS on June 10, 2009, at 2:32:49
In reply to Re: Phil is in the ha ha house, posted by Dinah on June 9, 2009, at 23:16:37
> Phil, I'm so glad you kept yourself safe.
>
> I've missed seeing you around here lately, but I can't imagine what it would be like if you were gone.Strangely enough, I would miss you too. We rarely cross paths, and any words we might have passed were short. Still, I would feel the void that you would leave here were you not to remain a part of our family. I respect each person as a human being. For others, I come to respect them further as an individual. There has never been a single post of yours that has not produced and reinforced that extra respect.
I hope that you pass through this bad time at a rate that is right for you. I have never allowed myself to be hospitalized for depression, even when I probably should have been. However, I have been hospitalized for severe drug-induced mania. My stays for each episode, and the severe depression that followed the mania produced a state that I was happy to rely on an inpatient setting to help me through. We are not talking about being there for just a few days. Fortunately, I did have a support system other than Psycho-Babble, so I had the luxury of not needing to function independently.
The moral of the story is this: there is none. It is just a matter of historical facts of things that I have experienced. You may find nothing in it that applies to you, so don't take it as Scott trying to teach Phil lessons in life. About the only thing that Scott wants to teach Phil is that he is worth a great deal to a great many people, and that we eagerly await your return.
- Scott
Posted by Kath on June 10, 2009, at 11:32:28
In reply to Re: Phil is in the ha ha house, posted by SLS on June 10, 2009, at 2:32:49
>About the only thing that Scott wants to teach Phil is that he is worth a great deal to a great many people, and that we eagerly await your return.
~ ~ ~
Dear Phil - ditto to the above.
Thinking of you with loving thoughts.
I don't think I often post back & forth with you, but to me you're a solid part of the 'fabric' of PsychoBabble & you're someone who - well, it's hard to describe, but seeing your name on a thread adds to my feeling of comfort & sense of belonging & family that I get from being a part of Babble.
I'm glad you reached out & got help through a really difficult time. I'm doing my "sending you golden light" thing, which, though perhaps weird, is, I believe a positive thing. If I'm feeling dreadful, it's reassuring to know people are sending me golden light.
It's been my experience that there are ups & downs on the journey towards feeling better. If you're having a down one, please know that you can bounce upward from that one.
((((((((((((((((you))))))))))))))))))
love, Kath
Posted by Bobby on June 10, 2009, at 12:57:31
In reply to Phil is in the ha ha house, posted by zenhussy on June 9, 2009, at 21:39:50
Phil! you're the man. I'm sure you'll have the staff in stitches(laughing)--just don't bring up those fancy expensive shoes during the conversation. you've always been a favorite of mine here--you smart a**! Take all of the time you need and fix your brain. One last bit of wisdom--"Stay away from Dr. Phil!" (the Oprah one)
Posted by Gabbette on June 10, 2009, at 20:16:15
In reply to Re: Phil is in the ha ha house, posted by Bobby on June 10, 2009, at 12:57:31
You know the last time I was in "Charm School"
(nod to JYL) I thought, wow depression puts a whole different spin on "MY HEAD is Killing me"I guess I'll do the reminder of the devious double
evil depression does, while causing pain that cannot be described, it also convinces you each and EVERY flipping time, that it's not going to end. And you can remind yourself of that every time, but every time you'll think "No this time it's different, the situation is different"Wow I'm being presumptious here.
And you know when you presume it makes a Pres out of U and ME
No seriously I'm projecting and if I'm all out of
line just call me nasty names
I also want to say that, I think the world really needs people like you, and maybe that's selfish
but you've brightened my day so many times.If you dare think that's a line, I will list every single time.. i can.
and I will.No I'm not *that* important but I know it's not just me.
So just you think about what it would do to US
Phil : )and hey
Get better,
it will,
and then it will suck againBut the in between times are okay.
I saw the most beautiful butterfly today
one of those ones that compell smart aS8 people
to always say "Well, technically it's a moth..
it's a common misconception..that"Well, it was beautiful, Red and blue and Yellow
and green, I didn't think they came in those colours anymore.I'm glad I saw it because
in the last three days, we've been broken into
we had the window fixed but literally the next day.(I kid you not) The window cleaners came by
and while hanging above our winow one guy accidentally kicked a different window out with his foot.He also said.. something I thought was amusing.
*Holy Sh*t look at all the pigeon dung on the roof" the dung part made me laugh.
enough of me.
Rest, get better
and let yourself fall.
it's okay.
Posted by obsidian on June 10, 2009, at 22:52:35
In reply to Ah Phil, posted by Gabbette on June 10, 2009, at 20:16:15
that was funny gabbette, about the pigeons
but yes, doesn't it convince you every time that it will never end?I don't know what you're in for though. Maybe you're manic, I've never been, but there have been those very speeded up times, when the lights have never seemed brighter.
wherever you are, I hope it feels safe,
and that you are finding your way.
I miss your posts. :-)all the best,
sid
Posted by manic 666 on June 12, 2009, at 13:15:16
In reply to To Phil, posted by obsidian on June 10, 2009, at 22:52:35
the secret, is phil make friends with the residents ,some of there tales, mixed with yours makes the day look better,an dont read books upside down , its a dead giveaway
Posted by Phil on June 18, 2009, at 14:20:05
In reply to Re: To Phil, posted by manic 666 on June 12, 2009, at 13:15:16
I was a half step from strangling myself when I stopped and called my pdoc.
I enjoyed a 4 day stay at Shoal Creek (psych) Hospital. I wish I could have stayed a few months but a co-pay of $268.00 a day puts that in the range of rich folk.
I'm alive but very weary.
Posted by Dinah on June 18, 2009, at 22:00:13
In reply to Trigger, posted by Phil on June 18, 2009, at 14:20:05
It's so good to see you.
Posted by Phillipa on June 18, 2009, at 22:03:44
In reply to Phil, posted by Dinah on June 18, 2009, at 22:00:13
Phil welcome back. Change of meds? Glad you got help you sound good. Love Phillipa
Posted by Cass on June 18, 2009, at 23:02:19
In reply to Trigger, posted by Phil on June 18, 2009, at 14:20:05
I've been thinking about you. I'm glad you're okay.
Warm wishes...
Posted by jane d on June 19, 2009, at 13:19:48
In reply to Trigger, posted by Phil on June 18, 2009, at 14:20:05
Posted by zenhussy on June 19, 2009, at 13:29:59
In reply to Trigger, posted by Phil on June 18, 2009, at 14:20:05
quote from cheesy movie but sadly true in many ways in this country: "You gotta be rich to be insane, Hol. Losing your mind is not a luxury for the middle class."
Day by day. You're not alone in this struggle. Don't forget to reach out as you need to.
You're in the company of those who understand. Use the lifelines available until you're on terra firma again.
Hoping for the darkness to recede and some light to shine back in on that wonderful soul of yours. All of us here need your wacky humour and honest compassion.
Stick around, please. = )
Thanks for posting and letting us all know you're alright.
xox
z
Posted by Bobby on June 19, 2009, at 22:59:07
In reply to Trigger, posted by Phil on June 18, 2009, at 14:20:05
Man it's a relief to see you post----but I'm not sure if I'm more scared that you were in there---or that now--you're out. the name Phil brings a smile to everyone who reads it----guarantee! I don't know how to help----but if you can think of a way I can manage--let me know. You are one of the coolest guys I know-----even when you're down---you know exactly the right words to say. I will plead with Zeus for the return of whatever it is that makes you happy. Lay low if you must----but don't stay there.
Posted by zenhussy on June 20, 2009, at 20:55:42
In reply to Re: Trigger » Phil, posted by Bobby on June 19, 2009, at 22:59:07
Posted by Kath on June 21, 2009, at 18:52:37
In reply to Trigger, posted by Phil on June 18, 2009, at 14:20:05
> I was a half step from strangling myself when I stopped and called my pdoc.
> I enjoyed a 4 day stay at Shoal Creek (psych) Hospital. I wish I could have stayed a few months but a co-pay of $268.00 a day puts that in the range of rich folk.
> I'm alive but very weary.
Dear Phil, Thanks for checking in here.I am SO glad you didn't trip, but called your pdoc instead. I'm sending you loving, supporting thoughts.
xoxo Kath
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